Looking for life partner

yesterday I saw survey report topic about  leftover worman and men  have big pressure from their parents because they didnot meet her /his life partner. chinese new year is coming , if you are not married in your marriage ages ,the parents will be anxiuse and will ask friends or relatives to introduce unmarriage girls or boy to them and hope give opportunity to each other.  my colleague Linda has 35ages this years and still single ,she always said that she didnot like her parents arrangment , she experienced when they just recognized one time , the boy want to marriage although he know their lack of deeply understand,as a man,  he donot care , but as a girl, she is like to consider more situation, she hope to have more time to know each other .

yes, maybe those of leftover woman and men dislike parental marriage  arrangement , because of their experiences, they dislike uncertain future and are afraid of their children will suffer losses and failures ,sometimes they hope his /her half can help their career development ,not urge Cal Ripken jerseys to start a family .

but some times the biggest turnoffs when looking for a spouse  are men finding women materialistic ,or narrow -minded,and women finding men stingy ,narrow-minded,and not gentlemen. 

for my understand , everyboy has strength and weakness, you must find out average point from strength and weakness to balance you are suitable or unsuitable .